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Friday, December 26, 2008
SALAM MAAL HIJRAH
Salam buat semua..
Hujung tahun 2008 ni agak istimewa kerana tahun baru masihi dan tahun baru islam (hijrah ) hampir bertembung, beza 3 hari sahaja.
Tapi kalau kita tanya org ,,semua orang tahu tahun depan tahun 2009 tapi kalau tanya tahun islam..kena check calendar dulu..bulan islam pun tak hafal or tak tahu, jahilnya kita umat islam!!! ( bukan marah, ini satu realiti! )
Ok, untuk yang tak tahu kita akan sambut Awal Muharam pada 29hbDec 2008. Tahun depan tahun 1430..OK..yang baik buat ikutan, yang jahat buat sempadan..
MAKSUD HADIS :
" Sebaik-baik manusia ialah ialah yang bermanfaat ke atas sesama manusia"
Doa Awal Tahun & Doa Akhir Tahun
Barangsiapa yang membaca doa awal tahun ini, insya Allah dirinya akan terpelihara daripada gangguan dan godaan syaitan di sepanjang tahun tersebut.
Doa Awal Tahun:
Maksudnya:
Allah SWT berselawat ke atas penghulu kami Muhammad SAW, ahli keluarga dan sahabat-sahabat baginda dan kesejahteraan ke atas mereka.
Wahai Tuhan, Engkaulah yang kekal abadi, yang qadim. yang awal dan ke atas kelebihanMu yang besar dan kemurahanMu yang melimpah dan ini adalah tahun baru yang telah muncul di hadapan kami. Kami memohon pemeliharaan dariMu di sepanjang tahun ini dari syaitan dan pembantu-pembantunya dan tentera-tenteranya dan juga pertolongan terhadap diri yang diperintahkan melakukan kejahatan dan usaha yang mendekatkanku kepadaMu Wahai Tuhan Yang Maha Agung dan Maha Mulia.
Wahai Tuhan Yang Maha pengasih dari mereka yang mengasihi dan Allah berselawat ke atas penghulu kami Muhammad. Nabi yang ummi dan ke atas ahli keluarga dan sahabat-sahabatnya dan kesejahteraan ke atas mereka.
Barangsiapa yang membaca doa akhir tahun ini, maka syaitan akan berkata:
"Hampalah kami di sepanjang tahun ini".
Doa Akhir Tahun:
Maksudnya:
Allah SWT berselawat ke atas penghulu kami Muhammad SAW, ahli keluarga dan sahabat-sahabat baginda dan kesejahteraan ke atas mereka.
Wahai Tuhan, apa yang telah aku lakukan dalam tahun ini daripada perkara-perkara yang Engkau tegah daripada aku melakukannya dan aku belum bertaubat daripadanya. Sedangkan Engkau tidak redha dan tidak melupakannya. Dan aku telah melakukannya di dalam keadaan di mana Engkau berupaya untuk menghukumku, tetapi Engkau mengilhamkanku dengan taubat selepas keberanianku melakukan dosa-dosa itu semuanya. Sesungguhnya aku memohon keampunanMu, maka ampunilah aku. Dan tidaklah aku melakukan yang demikian daripada apa yang Engkau redhainya dan Engkau menjanjikanku dengan pahala atas yang sedemikian itu. Maka aku memohon kepadaMu.
Wahai Tuhan! Wahai yang Maha Pemurah! Wahai Yang Maha Agung dan wahai Yang Maha Mulia agar Engkau menerima taubat itu dariku dan janganlah Engkau menghampakan harapanku kepadaMu Wahai Yang Maha Pemurah. Dan Allah berselawat ke atas penghulu kami Muhammad, ke atas ahli keluarga dan sahabat-sahabatnya dan mengurniakan kesejahteraan ke atas mereka.
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
LOVE & LIVE
This story tells us something about LOVE & LIFE.
My husband is S/W Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature
and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.
Two years of courtship and now, five years into marriage, I would have to
admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before,
has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.
I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a
relationship and my feelings. I yearn for the romantic moments, like a
little girl yearning for candy. My husband is my complete opposite; his lack
of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our
marriage has disheartened me about LOVE.
One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.
"Why?" he asked, shocked.
"I am tired. There are no reasons for everything in the world!" I answered.
He kept silent the whole night, seemingly in deep thought. My feeling of
disappointment only increased. Here was a man who was not able to even
express his predicament, so what else could I expect from him?
And finally he asked me: "What can I do to change your mind?"
Somebody said it right... It's hard to change a person's personality, and I
guess, I have started losing faith in him.
Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered: "Here is the question. If you
can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind.
Let's say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we
both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death. Will you do it
for me?"
He said: "I will give you your answer tomorrow...." My hopes just sank by
listening to his response.
I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with
his scratchy handwriting underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near
the front door, that goes....
My dear, "I would not pick that flower for you, but....please allow me to
explain the reasons further.....
This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.
"When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you
cry in front of the screen. I have to save my fingers so that I can help to
restore the programs.
You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush
home to open the door for you.
You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city. I have to save my
eyes to show you the way.
You always have the cramps whenever your "good friend" approaches every
month. I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy.
You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile
autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your
boredom.
You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your
eyes. I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip
your nails and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold
your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the
beautiful sand...and tell you the colour of flowers, just like the colour of
the glow on your young face...
Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more
than I do... I could not pick that flower yet, and die ... "
My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting... and
as I continue on reading... "Now, that you have finished reading my answer,
and if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing
outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk...
I rushed to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly
with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread....Now I am very sure that
no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the
flower alone...
That's LIFE, and LOVE. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of
excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in
between the peace and dullness.
Love shows up in all forms; even in very small and cheeky forms. It has
never been a model. It could be the dullest and most boring form ...
Flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the
relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands... AND THAT'S
Sources : HRAct Community via email ( eftie dec12'2008 )
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Work-Life Balance?
Untuk sesiapa yang dah berkahwin apa lagi yang dah ada anak, 1, 2, 3, 4 mcm FT mesti struggle utk balancekan..betul ke ada nak balance work n life..takdelah bende ni, FT rasa klu u all nak membalance itula yg menstresskan korang esp to the ladies..
bapak-bapak, abang-abang jgn marah he..itulah hakikatnya..
My ladies friends,
Dari pengalaman FT apalah guna kita excellent di tmpt kerja tapi dek kerana kesibukan kita, kekomitedtan ( ada ke word ni ? ) , nescaya akan membawa stress ke rumah..pro mana pun kita..n evetually, akan effect performance kita as a mother n a wife/husband..bila otak dan badan dah penat, balik byk lg benda nak buat memasak, laundry, etc, etc..jadi korang faham..don't stress ur self..relax..
Jika satu hari u need to choose antara career n anak2, pilihlah anak2, sebab kerja lain boleh di cari tapi anak2 itu jelah..ingat hari ini umur anak 1 tahun 10 bulan,( umur Adiq Pink ) esok lusa dah umur lain, silap2 tak sedar dah besar dah anak dara, macam FT anak sulung dah besar, mcm tak caya..( sori! Kak Long)
Ginilah..FT punya rumusan..kalau nak balance tu takdelah sbb most n always our famili our kids r our priority..kita kerja sebab depa apa..yelah untuk duit shopping kita tu sampingan je..tapi bila di tempat kerja berilah yang terbaik..nanti boss marah..sebenarnya jd boss ni susah, boss bukan free2 nak marah anak buah, dia nak semua hasilkan yang terbaik, kita kena faham, nanti u all jadi boss baru tau!
Masa dengan anak2 berilah yang terbaik, remember quality time is not bawak your kids pergi holiday..quality time is suppose everyday..walaupun sekejap jgn lupa berdoa utk mereka jd anak yg soleh/solehah,makan bersama, beri salam assalamualaikum bila tgk depa bgn tidur n sebelum tidur..sembang, peluk n cium mereka setiap hari...
K.Long,Angah,Abang,Dik Pink - Mama&Papa nak jadi yang terbaik untuk kamu semua!
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