Letting Go n Face it...1 year ago

23 Januari..tahun lepas ari inilah aku membuat keputusan yang amat besar.. aku memberi notis bertulis untuk meninggal kerjaya aku di co yg telah aku berkhidmat sejak 12 tahun yang lalu, pekerjaan pertama aku selepas habis diploma ITM aku..

Entahlah, apa yang menguatkan semangat aku, padahal masa tu takde satu offer kerja lain pun yang aku ada..just aku rasa aku kena resign..3 bulan serve notis pun dah takde feeling, boss, friends n anak buah suruh stay..I can stand with stress, but not frustation..kenapa nak resign padahal kan dah lama kerja..sampai hari ini, walaupun dah setahun tak siapa yang benar-benar tahu n faham the real reason why? ..tak perlu faham..buat apa nak faham dah happened!..he!he! Jangan la serious sangat dalam mengharungi hidup ini..( lesson yg aku dpt lepas berenti..) & my secrets how i can & will survive..

photo"Bank of Commerce table calendar 1997 from eftie collections"

PATIENCE ( rahsia pokok kelapa di pantai..penuh pengertian ) , Keep thing easy, Islam pun menyuruh umatnya bersederhana, minta dipermudahkanNYA segala hal..jangan susah2..

Usah dikenang perkara yang lepas - itulah yang selalu kita dengar, tapi bolehlah kita melupakannya?? tempat kerja macam rumah ke2 kita tapi kalau kita congak2 masa yang kita spend kat tempat kerja lebih banyak dari rumah..tak percaya kira..ada orang yang terlupa cari pasangan hidup dan berkeluarga kerana komitmen kerja..jangan ye..

Dan..kita perlu belajar dari apa yang pernah kita lalui..sejarah lah mengajar kita supaya lebih maju dan tidak dijajah,dizalimi dan dianiayai lagi..anyhow..aku tidaklah menyesal dengan keputusan yang aku buat, yang patah tumbuh yang hilang berganti..what happen to us must be a very good reason for that. Lastly, Jangan takut buat keputusan dalam hidup, ..life must goes on...let go n face it!!!

Letting Go
To let go doesn't mean to stop caring; It means I can't do it for someone else.

To let go is not to cut myself off....It's the realization that I can't control another.....

To let go is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To let go is to admit powerlessness,which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try and change or blame another,I can only change myself.

To let go is not to care for, but to care about. To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To let go is not to judge,but to allow another to be a human being.

To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own outcomes.

To let go is not to be protective,It is to permit another to face reality. To let go is not to deny, but to accept.

To let go is not to nag, scold, or argue, but to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish the moment. - author;unknown, source ;HR Networking,

Eftie ; To let go is not that easy as to get it..

DIB'96 ITM ARAU REUNION

10.01.2009, Sat, Gombak.

Sedar tak sedar sudah hampir 13 tahun kami meninggalkan bumi Perlis itu, di sana tempatnya ITM Arau, the best ever place for friendship n love ( for some of us..who met their soul mate there.. )



Tak pernah terfikir nak "tercampak" ke utara tu.. July93 "gonjeng" je masing register..muka innocent gile...( jangan tak ngaku lak...)

actually ni attempt ke-2 utk berkumpul , coz dalam tahun 2006, sempena 10 tahun grad.. I have initiated, but tak proceed coz tak betul2 plan n form task committee..now insyallah..n dah ada blog forum kami sendiri..http://dib96.tk/ jd mmg mudah utk berhubung n mengenang kembali nostalgia..n facebook, friendster, email, sms ..mmg no reason utk tidak menyemarakkan kembali ikatan kekawan...

Thanks to Beth,Lun,Nair n sapa je yg berkenaan yg berkerja keras untuk misi reunion kita ni...

Personally, antara benda yang I nak improve n balance is my friendship or people relation, mungkin 10 tahun kebelakangan ini banyak benda yang I tertinggal, patutlah stress memanjang..kadang2 surrounding n environment memaksa kita adapt n adjust dengan apa yang ada, mata dan hati tertutup pada benda yang penting dalam kehidupan..kita selalu terlupa adanya orang lain who cares about us others than our close famili members...

Untuk member2, jumpa disana !!! - 14-16 March 2009, Teluk Batik...




Dalam Gambar Kelas B - Bang Art,Nizam, Zul
eftie,Ayu,Muni,Yati,Ina, Elly, Mai,Ada,Dillah,Yati,Kuna & Rokiah..

p/s ..Byk lg gbr dalam blog forum...

Simple Friends vs. Real Friends

A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.

A simple friend brings a goody pack to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and clean.

A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.

A simple friend seeks to talk with you about their problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.

A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it.

A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.
A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after u've had a fight.

A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!

A simple friend will read and throw this letter away.
A real friend will keep sending it until he's sure it's been Received.
....adapt from http://www.piffe.com/inspiration/

eftie ;
"Don't ask me am i your real friend;ask ourself am i your real friend"

p/s ; Faham tak ? Maksudnya kalau kita nak jadi real friend pd kawan kita, kita dulu kena jadi real friend depa ( wah..depa..melekat juga loghat utara..no..taksat lagi kita boleh jumpa.. ) end 01.30 am

Anak-anakku yang empat

Salam,

Ini adalah coretan pertama untuk tahun 2009 selepas 7-8 hari berganjak ketahun baru.
Sebenarnya, mengakhiri tahun 2008 adalah sesuatu yang FT nanti-nanti..bukan apa terlalu banyak benda2 penting berlaku dalam tahun tu..sangat mencabar dan alhamdulillah semuanya dipermudahkanNya.

So untuk topik pertama, i would like to talk about my kids ( they are my strength ..)


Tahun 2009 ini ..

My Beauty One WAN FARHAH HUSNA@Kak Long/Una masuk Std 5
My Dear WAN FIRSHA HUMYRAH@Angah/Shasha Std 2
My Only Son WAN FAHIYM HUZEN@Abang start his kindergarten
My Little Princess WAN FIRNAS HURYNNUHA@Dik Pink sian dok umah no friends..


So, start je sekolah, memang terasa sangat kesibukannya, takde masa untuk melayan diri sendiri ( I mean masa membelai diri sendiri n buat something utk reward ourself ) but it ok coz mum always put their children as top priority..

Bukan itu saja, perbelanjaan pun bertambah so memang kena baget betul-betul...
Now, even jarak rumah ke sekolah dekat, a walking distance but for safety purpose, tak sanggup nak lepaskan sahaja, kita taulah masa sekarang, mana ada selamat, biarlah berbelanja lebih sikit janji selamat..

Begitu juga dengan dilemma samada nak hantar si Abang tu Tadika gomen or private..kalau nak save hantar je Tadika Perpaduan or Kemas but then puas hati kah kita dengan hasilnya..so I decided to send him to private, yuran dia toksah cakaplah RM berapa..bukanlah nak berlagak but for me education is something u cannot tolerate..also based on my exp htr K/long to Tadika Kemas n Angah to Smart Reader,
lain sekali produk keluarannya, the investment is worth enough, somemore it is for their future..

Anyhow..I do hope 2009 will be a better year for every body yaaa..

"KEHIDUPAN ADALAH UNTUK DINIKMATI, KETIKA SENANG DENGAN KESYUKURAN, KETIKA SUSAH DENGAN KESABARAN, INSYALLAH DIBERKATI & DIPERMUDAHKANNYA..AMIN"