Friday, January 23, 2009

Letting Go n Face it...1 year ago


23 Januari..tahun lepas ari inilah aku membuat keputusan yang amat besar.. aku memberi notis bertulis untuk meninggal kerjaya aku di co yg telah aku berkhidmat sejak 12 tahun yang lalu, pekerjaan pertama aku selepas habis diploma ITM aku..

Entahlah, apa yang menguatkan semangat aku, padahal masa tu takde satu offer kerja lain pun yang aku ada..just aku rasa aku kena resign..3 bulan serve notis pun dah takde feeling, boss, friends n anak buah suruh stay..I can stand with stress, but not frustation..kenapa nak resign padahal kan dah lama kerja..sampai hari ini, walaupun dah setahun tak siapa yang benar-benar tahu n faham the real reason why? ..tak perlu faham..buat apa nak faham dah happened!..he!he! Jangan la serious sangat dalam mengharungi hidup ini..( lesson yg aku dpt lepas berenti..) & my secrets how i can & will survive..




photo"Bank of Commerce table calendar 1997 from eftie collections"

PATIENCE ( rahsia pokok kelapa di pantai..penuh pengertian ) , Keep thing easy, Islam pun menyuruh umatnya bersederhana, minta dipermudahkanNYA segala hal..jangan susah2..

Usah dikenang perkara yang lepas - itulah yang selalu kita dengar, tapi bolehlah kita melupakannya?? tempat kerja macam rumah ke2 kita tapi kalau kita congak2 masa yang kita spend kat tempat kerja lebih banyak dari rumah..tak percaya kira..ada orang yang terlupa cari pasangan hidup dan berkeluarga kerana komitmen kerja..jangan ye..

Dan..kita perlu belajar dari apa yang pernah kita lalui..sejarah lah mengajar kita supaya lebih maju dan tidak dijajah,dizalimi dan dianiayai lagi..anyhow..aku tidaklah menyesal dengan keputusan yang aku buat, yang patah tumbuh yang hilang berganti..what happen to us must be a very good reason for that. Lastly, Jangan takut buat keputusan dalam hidup, ..life must goes on...let go n face it!!!

Letting Go
To let go doesn't mean to stop caring; It means I can't do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off....It's the realization that I can't control another.....

To let go is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To let go is to admit powerlessness,which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try and change or blame another,I can only change myself.

To let go is not to care for, but to care about. To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To let go is not to judge,but to allow another to be a human being.

To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own outcomes.

To let go is not to be protective,It is to permit another to face reality. To let go is not to deny, but to accept.

To let go is not to nag, scold, or argue, but to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish the moment. - author;unknown, source ;HR Networking,

Eftie ; To let go is not that easy as to get it..




























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